Watching the English do Religion
Kate Fox, in her book Watching the English (Hodder, 2004, pp 353-357), offers a fascinating account of the ‘rules’ underlying English behaviour. The book is full of witty and insightful observations. After all, Fox writes as a trained anthropologist (which she defines as a being a professional ‘nosey parker’). She talks engagingly about how we English converse about the weather, the way we approach humour, the rules that govern our behaviour regarding driving, work, dress, sex, and so on.
‘Religious’ rules are subsumed under the heading of ‘rites of passage’. This, she says, is because ‘religion as such is largely irrelevant to the lives of most English people nowadays.’ All that remain for most people are the rites connected with ‘hatching, matching, and dispatching’.